{"id":89,"date":"2025-11-11T13:30:02","date_gmt":"2025-11-11T10:30:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/muhatap.tr\/istanbul\/2025\/11\/11\/istanbul-beylikduzunde-evlilik-okulu-basladi\/"},"modified":"2026-09-11T09:17:10","modified_gmt":"2026-09-11T06:17:10","slug":"istanbul-beylikduzunde-evlilik-okulu-basladi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/muhatap.tr\/istanbul\/istanbul-beylikduzunde-evlilik-okulu-basladi\/89\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Evlilik birlikte \u00f6\u011freniliyor&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>muhatap<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\/\u0130STANBUL\/ Ayn\u0131 evde ya\u015famak, ayn\u0131 hayat\u0131 payla\u015fmak anlam\u0131na geliyor.<\/p>\n<p>Ama ayn\u0131 ritmi bulmak her zaman kendili\u011finden olmuyor.<\/p>\n<p>Beylikd\u00fcz\u00fc Belediyesi ile Beylikd\u00fcz\u00fc Gen\u00e7 \u0130\u015fadamlar\u0131 Derne\u011fi\u2019nin (BEYG\u0130AD) birlikte ba\u015flatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 <strong>\u201cEvlilik Okulu\u201d<\/strong>, tam da bu ortak hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde \u00f6\u011frenilen \u015feyleri konu\u015fmak i\u00e7in yola \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Sekiz ay s\u00fcrecek programda sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ileti\u015fimden rol payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131na, bilin\u00e7li ebeveynlikten t\u00fckenmi\u015flik ve \u00f6z bak\u0131ma kadar farkl\u0131 ba\u015fl\u0131klar ele al\u0131nacak.<\/p>\n<p>Program\u0131n ilk konu\u011fu Aile Dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131 <strong>Ayperi Baykal<\/strong> oldu.<\/p>\n<p>Beylikd\u00fcz\u00fc Atat\u00fcrk K\u00fclt\u00fcr ve Sanat Merkezi\u2019nde ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirilen bulu\u015fmada Baykal; evlilik \u00f6ncesi ve evlilik s\u00fcrecinde ileti\u015fim, empati, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131rlar, ortak sorumluluk ve problem \u00e7\u00f6zme \u00fczerine konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n<p>Baykal, evlili\u011fi bir dansa benzetiyor:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cEvlilik asl\u0131nda dans etmek gibidir. Hayat yolculu\u011fu i\u00e7erisinde t\u0131pk\u0131 ritim tutar gibi ad\u0131mlar\u0131n e\u015f zamanl\u0131 at\u0131lmas\u0131 ve birbirine duyarl\u0131 olmak evlilikte \u00f6\u011frenilen bir s\u00fcre\u00e7.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Onun \u00fczerinde \u00f6zellikle durdu\u011fu noktalardan biri de kullan\u0131lan dil.<\/p>\n<p>Baykal\u2019a g\u00f6re bir ili\u015fkide kurulan c\u00fcmleler k\u00f6pr\u00fcleri g\u00fc\u00e7lendirebildi\u011fi gibi, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck meselelerde bile o k\u00f6pr\u00fcleri zay\u0131flatabiliyor.<\/p>\n<p>Bu nedenle dinlemek, empati kurmak, sab\u0131rl\u0131 olmak ve \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak evlili\u011fin \u00f6nemli par\u00e7alar\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Bir de \u00e7o\u011fu zaman k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6r\u00fclen iki kelime var:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Te\u015fekk\u00fcr etmek.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ve gerekti\u011finde:<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00d6z\u00fcr dilemek.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Baykal bunu \u015f\u00f6yle anlat\u0131yor:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cHayat bir m\u00fccadele ve bu m\u00fccadeleyi s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcrken elinden tutmak istedi\u011fimiz insanla dayan\u0131\u015fma i\u00e7erisinde oldu\u011fumuzda, bir ekip oldu\u011fumuzda \u00e7ok daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcy\u00fcz.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Belki \u201cEvlilik Okulu\u201d ad\u0131n\u0131n en anlaml\u0131 taraf\u0131 da burada.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc birlikte ya\u015famak yaln\u0131z birbirini sevmekle de\u011fil;<\/p>\n<p><strong>birbirini duymay\u0131, anlamay\u0131 ve ayn\u0131 ritmi yeniden yeniden bulmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmekle de ilgili.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130stanbul&#8217;da Beylikd\u00fcz\u00fc Belediyesi, toplumun temel yap\u0131 ta\u015flar\u0131ndan olan aile kurumunun g\u00fc\u00e7lenmesine katk\u0131 sunmak amac\u0131yla \u201cEvlilik Okulu\u201d program\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015flatt\u0131.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":90,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[41],"class_list":["post-89","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-istanbul","tag-evlilik"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/muhatap.tr\/istanbul\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/89","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/muhatap.tr\/istanbul\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/muhatap.tr\/istanbul\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/muhatap.tr\/istanbul\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/muhatap.tr\/istanbul\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=89"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/muhatap.tr\/istanbul\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/89\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":148,"href":"https:\/\/muhatap.tr\/istanbul\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/89\/revisions\/148"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/muhatap.tr\/istanbul\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/90"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/muhatap.tr\/istanbul\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=89"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/muhatap.tr\/istanbul\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=89"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/muhatap.tr\/istanbul\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=89"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}